My friend posted recently she was excited that baseball
season had begun again. Both her sons
were on teams, as well as her nephew. Four
to five times during the week they will be at a ball field for one of the games
and this includes Saturday and Sunday. “I love it,” she said. “It’s what we do. During baseball season we live at the ball
park. We don’t get much else done, but
hey, who cares? I get to sit, watch the
game, drink tea (or other drink) and relax.
What a great way to live!”
In some
ways, I was completely appalled at the perspective. It’s great kids enjoy sports.
It’s wonderful exercise and competitive recreation. The problem begins
when our lives are driven by a calendar revolving around sports as the most
important thing in our lives!
In a
convoluted kind of way, we've made sports a ‘god’. Anything we put before Him, is idolatry. God doesn’t want to be second in our
lives. He requires his rightful place of
first. But, say the nay sayers, “I'm part of the team. I have to be
there. They count on me! If I don’t show up, I’ll be kicked off the
team and besides, there isn’t an “I” in team,” we are reminded. “It’s about everyone who signed up!”
There’s
a lot to be said for loyalty. It’s
important to be part of a team, doing our share, and contributing in whatever
way we are able. But our spiritual lives get neglected when we have our priorities skewed with sports (or
anything else) we put ahead of God. We are instructed in scripture to not neglect
meeting with other Believers for fellowship.
Our spiritual exercise is as important – more important – than any
physical exercise. Our Spiritual health
will fail if we don’t recognize the need for keeping God in the forefront of
our lives.
As
adults, we are quick to turn on the television to catch a game, race or other
sports match we enjoy. Sports rule in many homes during the week and
very often on the weekend, including Sunday.
This concretes in our children’s minds how important sports are to
us. For our children, who
often want to emulate us, decisions become complicated because we are sending
mixed signals.
When our
young ones are interested in playing sports, they should participate when they can, and be part of a
team. Sometimes, however, we must get creative with choices. We need to make sure our child understands spiritual
priorities; then a conversation with the coach might need to take place. It certainly doesn’t mean he’ll cooperate or
respect our priorities, but it’s worth trying.
Sometimes, it requires a hard decision, both the coach and child, will
not be pleased with. It may take finding
another sport or activity to replace the one that directly affects worship time
or a spiritual activity. Other times it
requires making the decision that we spend time with our children in an activity or sport, even though it is not part of an organized team.
I
encourage you to evaluate your connection with sports—or anything else that
comes first—before God. Does your
‘relationship’ interfere with your relationship with Christ? Where does your ‘loyalty’ reign? Does your ‘devotion’ send mixed signals to
your children? Can they see your
allegiance to Christ as being first…….or is He second…..or third, below a
sports event or other activity?
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