My husband was talking with a man a week ago who caught me completely off guard. He was average height, mid-forties or early fifties, with hair hanging well past his shoulders, snaggletooth, but relatively clean. As I eyed him, I found myself not revolted, but very leery, certain the language from his mouth would likely be offensive. As I joined my husband and listened to the conversation between the two of them, I discovered the man was a believer in Christ. Shame on me! I had put him in a box based on what my eyes saw.
In another
instance we were in the midst of a large group of people and I noticed the
attire of many of the women, young up to middle age; small and petite to larger
and even obese wearing what looked like black tights in place of jeans or shorts. I again admit to shuddering and thinking,
“Really?”
Why do we
put people in boxes? I suspect when
people see me, especially in conversation with someone else, they must just
shake their head and wonder what in the world is wrong with me since my hands rarely
stop moving. I don’t use “sign language”
in the regular sense, but talking with my hands is just how I seem to be able
to communicate. In fact, my husband has
grabbed my hands in the middle of a sentence and I declare, I forget what it
was I was saying!
My point is
we all have little nuances, which makes us different. I imagine when Christ walked the earth;
people probably found Him a bit odd. He
challenged people to look at life differently, to accept what was new and in
some instances went against what they’d believed all their lives. He wanted acceptance based on what He told
them, not what he looked like.
God looks
for faithfulness in our lives, not flawlessness. He doesn’t love us based on our
hair style, shirt color, our shoe size or if we have all
our teeth or not! He loves us because He is God. He loved us so much He sent
his Son as the ultimate sacrifice. And
Jesus loved us enough to leave His throne in heaven and give His life in
agreement with the Father.
I believe
God challenges us to look beyond what we see with our mortal eyes. It takes more than our human-ness to do this,
however. The only way we can look past
what we see is to ask the Holy Spirit to open our eyes and our hearts to God’s
wisdom. Otherwise we will see only as
the world sees, and the world is blinded by sin and can’t see at all.
God also
expects us to see past whatever situation we are in and look for guidance from
Him to be able to deal with, work through, or wait on His answer regarding how
to handle what is before us. When we
use “God’s eyes” to see, we will more likely understand the lesson we are to
learn from whatever trial we are facing or further mature into the person we are
supposed to become in Christ.
As we grow
in Christ, seeing our world, God’s creation, including other people, through
Heaven’s eyes, we will grow in faith and as we grow we will discover that faith
functions by love, not in a box. Our
hearts will be able to see past the flaws we see in others and enable us to see with the
love of God.
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