Paige looked at her husband, fighting tears. The accident had turned their world upside down. Gavin was getting better, but was a long way from being able to go back to work and the insurance company was dragging their feet on making good on their policy. It seemed every time they thought they had everything documented, there was someone who contested something causing delay after delay.
“I know you don’t want me to go back to work and I don’t want to,” she said swallowing hard. “But it’s the only thing to do. At least we won’t have to get a sitter. Your mom said she’d help you watch Joey and Rachel.”
“But,”
“No buts. I’ve already talked with Mr. Summers at the diner. I start tomorrow.”
Each of us deal with dark seasons in our lives. It could be the loss of a loved one, divorce, financial stress, emotional upheavals related to moving or our children, health concerns, or a hundred other things.
There are those who believe our lives are dictated by how the stars align, while others believe our lives are completely in their human hands; each moving forward by the strength of their own decisions. Our personal fate or destiny is still another perspective people will use when shifts in our lives happen.
Others are convinced it’s all about their beauty, abilities, money, status, or intelligence. Where they are on the “ladder” of whatever business or societal group they are in, they are certain they made the difference, without any help from anyone else. When trouble comes, however, they can’t possibly be responsible. It’s someone or something else’s fault.
Our God, whether people will admit to it or not, is the Creator of the Universe! He knows the end from the beginning. He’s aware of all that happens to each of us. It is He who “aligns” things to happen in his time and for his reasons, although situations can also happen because of free will—and our personal decisions! Pain is real and happens to everyone. God doesn’t want us to suffer alone. He encourages us to come to Him. He teaches us to use our negative or unpleasant circumstance to grow and then use it!
Sometimes we get “lost” in the confusion, hurting (emotional or physical), anger, insults, or offending situation. We lose sight of who is “at the wheel.” We lash out instead of reaching out. Instead of using our circumstance for good, we inflict more hurt. There’s an expression that “hurting people, hurt other people.” There are times when this is true. But by striking out we are likely going to miss an opportunity to do good.
No matter what we are going through, we don’t own our “corner of the world” on pain, anger or anything else negative. There are others in at least the same “corner,” or in a worse place.
I encourage you to use your circumstance as “defining moments.” Use the different (or dark) seasons in your life to allow yourself, first to heal if necessary. Secondly, don't miss the opportunity to use these times to make a difference for the Kingdom.
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